Marriages, according to Hindu beliefs are made in heaven, and once you are married, the bond is supposed to last for seven lives. It is considered a turning point in the life of a person who enters the second phase.
Hindu weddings are long processes, with various rituals which has deep philosophical and spiritual significance. Throughout the world the Hindus adhere to these set of rituals and continue on the traditions of marriage that is unique amongst those in the world. These pre-wedding rituals signify good wishes to the couple and a long and happy married life.
There are a lot of different types pre-wedding rituals are in India but few important are
An important pre-marriage ritual beginning of a wonderful journey between two souls and their families.
Ring Ceremony The bride and the groom exchange ring in the presence of the priest (panditji).
Puja is held by both the bride and groom’s families. The families pray to Lord Ganesha to remove all obstacles from the couple’s life path.
Mehendi
A paste of henna is applied on the bride’s and groom’s hands with positive spirits and good luck.
Pheras are also called the seven vows performed by the bride and groom in front of the sacred fire. It is said that each circle has 360° of angles/ number that cannot be divide by the number 7entirely (after taking 7 phera) in the series of 1 to 9. It signifies that couple to be undivided throughout the life.
It also signifies a specific promise that the couple make to each other which are as follows –
First step: To respect and honor each other
Second step: To share each other’s joy and sorrow
Third step: To trust and be loyal to each other
Fourth step: To cultivate appreciation for knowledge, values, sacrifice and service
Fifth step: To appreciate purity of emotions, love, family duties and spiritual growth
Sixth step: To follow principles of Dharma
Seventh step: To nurture an eternal bond of friendship and love
On completion of this ritual the marriage is concluded and the couple seeks blessings from elders.